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Facing Addiction Part III E-mail

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Monster Addiction
Addiction is like a monster. It will harass you until you give into what it wants. But in doing so the monster becomes stronger and more demanding. It becomes more difficult to resist and satisfy its cravings. The best way to deal with addiction is to replace it with a greater need. For example you may crave chocolate but not when your house is on fire. In such a case your life is more important than your craving. Overcoming an addiction requires a fundamental change in the way you understand your needs.

Maslow’s pyramid of needs: According to Abraham Maslow, our human needs can be understood like a pyramid or hierarchy.  At the base of the pyramid are our physical needs such as our need for air, water, food, safety. When these basic needs are met we begin to work on our emotional needs, such as acceptance, friendship and love. At the top of the pyramid is our need for self-actualisation, which Maslow describes as our need to adopt moral standards by which to live and our need to express ourselves creatively. Life according to Maslow is all about meeting our basic and complex needs.

This all makes sense except that it denies our spiritual need, which when properly understood turns Maslow’s pyramid upside down.

The greater need: Without God you are left alone with your needs and it’s up to you to try and fulfil them. But God changes everything. He actually tells his children not to worry about what they will eat and what they will wear because life is more than food and clothing (Luke 12:22-34). God says “I’ll worry about what you need; you worry about being and doing what I made you for.” With God in your life your primary need is to please him. In summary, God is pleased when we love him and when we love people (Matthew 22:37-39). God turns your needs upside down so that your greatest need is not to be loved but to love.

The way to overcome an addiction is not to need it anymore. The way not to need it anymore is to have a greater need. Your greater need is to love God and love people. This will free you to enjoy giving rather than receiving and serving rather than being served.      

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